Positive self love affirmations are all about helping us love and accept ourselves completely. 

Self love affirmations are a great tool in helping us reframe our mindset and remind us to start loving ourselves more. 

Self love – it’s so easy to say that we need to love ourselves first, so easy to say that we have to put our needs first, forgive ourselves and accept ourselves completely but this is still one of the most difficult journeys that we have to take. 

And I’m definitely guilty of this. It’s so easy to think of others, to constantly live our lives trying to please other people without really noticing how much we are taking ourselves for granted. 

Before hitting rock bottom, I used constantly live my life on autopilot, never taking the time to check in with how I’m feeling. I also had a bad habit of wanting to please other people, especially the people that I love. 

It got to a point where I was living my life according to what they expect of me. I was so unhappy, stressed, and overwhelmed with their expectations but I ignored all of that, I ignored what I felt – thinking that eventually, I will be okay and I will eventually be happy. 

But that wasn’t the case. I completely lost myself. I was so lost and stuck. 

Please don’t make the same mistakes I did. 

Yes, loving yourself is definitely not easy. It’s not something that you can easily do overnight, it’s not a straight path. It’s a journey. 

But it can definitely be done by taking small steps every single day. 

So, let’s start by doing this. Let’s practice these self love affirmations and repeat them every day or every time we feel defeated or when we feel that our minds are filled with so much negativity. 

Doing this will not only help our self love journey but will also help us let go of negativity

Here are 80 Self-Love Affirmations

Today, I’m choosing to be grateful.

I choose to focus on what brings me joy and happiness.

I am enough and I am worthy. 

I let go of the things that are beyond my control and I focus on the things that I can.

I can make a positive difference.

I am capable of changing my life for the better. 

I am worthy of happiness, love, and forgiveness. 

Self love affirmations

I forgive myself for all my mistakes and free myself from any regrets. 

My mental health is a priority. 

I am allowed to say no. 

I am grateful for the things that I have.

I am strong enough to get through this. 

I am choosing myself and my happiness. 

I am comfortable in my own skin. 

I am brave enough to survive this pain. 

I love myself unconditionally

I am capable of achieving anything I set my mind and heart to. 

I love and accept myself for who I am.

I am trying my best and I get better every day. 

I am not afraid because God is with me. 

I have the power to break bad habits. 

I am healing and learning.

I’m giving myself space to grow, heal and move forward.

Today, I choose me. 

My needs are a priority. 

My body is beautiful. 

Today, I choose to forgive myself and set myself free from past pains. 

I choose to stop making excuses and take action in changing my life. 

I can be happy again. 

Self love affirmations

I am beautiful, smart, and self-confident. 

Today, I choose to radiate kindness and compassion. 

Today, I choose to take a break and do something that I love without feeling guilty about it. 

I have the power to improve my life and change my story. 

I choose to let go of regrets. 

I am free from expectations.

I am improving, learning, and growing. 

Today, I choose to live in the moment. 

I have the power to make the right decisions. 

I choose to be free from negative self-talk and self-sabotage.

I choose to stop apologizing for being myself.

I am resilient. 

I am strong enough to stand up and keep going when life knocks me down. 

I am blessed.

My mistakes and failures don’t define me. 

I continue to grow and become a better person. 

I give myself space to make mistakes and learn. 

Today, I choose to focus on the bright side

I choose to stop judging myself and others. 

I have the power to let go of negativity.

Today, I choose to let go of negative thoughts. 

I embrace who I am completely.

Today, I choose to radiate love and happiness. 

I am doing the best that I can every day. 

I deserve all the good things that are coming my way.

I deserve love. 

Being myself is enough.

I have the power to change. 

My voice matters.

I matter.

I’m deserving of success and happiness.

I embrace my flaws and imperfections. 

I am proud of myself for trying every day.

I am strong and confident. 

I love my body and everything that it does for me.

I am in control of my happiness.

Today, I choose to let go of my past and live in the present. 

Self love affirmations

I am exactly where I need to be at this moment. 

Today, I choose to let go of the things that no longer serve me. 

I respect myself.

Today, I choose to radiate confidence.

The only validation that I’ll ever need is my own. 

I have the strength needed to get through tough times. 

Today, I choose to start loving myself more. 

I have so much love to give to myself and others. 

I choose to love my own company. 

I learn from my failures. 

I give myself compassion and love every time I fail and make mistakes.

My mind is filled with positivity and hope. 

I am valued and I am worthy.

I am beautiful inside and out.

How to use Self love affirmations

For these self love affirmations to work effectively, you must choose the ones that really speak to you and the ones that you would like to achieve and accomplished. 

When I first used affirmations, I kept telling myself how useless it is for me to keep repeating them because I don’t even believe in them.

But I realized that you don’t have to believe in them right off the bat. You can’t just make yourself believe in them by reading them once.

That’s why for it to work, you have to repeat them multiple times a day. You can do it first thing in the morning or every time you feel defeated and when your mind is filled with so much negativity. 

You can even write these statements down. 

Try to incorporate them into your daily schedule. Add them to your morning or nighttime routine. Set up a reminder for them. 

Also, another important thing to take note of is, every time you repeat them, allow yourself to be open to that feeling. 

You may not fully believe that statement yet but choose to be open to it and try to explore what it feels like. 

If you’re currently guilty of people-pleasing, it’s time to make yourself a priority. Don’t be afraid to take care of your needs first. Love yourself unconditionally. You can love yourself the way you love others. Self-love is not selfish.

Start your self love journey now and keep repeating these self love affirmations to change your life for the better and we can slowly learn how to be happy again and how to love and accept ourselves completely.

Which these positive affirmations resonated with you the most? Let me know!